Closing my books to new subs
By Elizabeth Swan on
I was chatting to another dominatrix last week and we were both similar in the way that we have worked for over a decade in the business, we have had our own dungeons (although I don't now) and we have seen a change in the way that subs treat Mistresses. "They are much ruder now, if you get one line when they contact you, you are lucky," she said and I concurred.
"U available for one hour" is not unusual though 'hi' and 'how are you today?' is also very common.
Messages like that tell me that not only has the sub not read my website, they have no respect. And why would any dominatrix see a 'sub' who does not respect her?
Perhaps some dominatrices newer to the scene will, and of course if a woman needs money, she might put up with a rude man, but that is not sustainable. If a person doesn't like their job they will change it and if a woman is seeing boundary pushers all the time they will soon realise that they are not the dominants, they are the doormats.
Respect begins with how we feel about ourselves and who our regulars are say a lot about us. I haven't a single regular who I am not happy to hear from. Of course that has not always been the case, it is something that I have cultivated over the years.
I am busy at the moment so for the foreseeable future I shall be solely seeing subs I have met before. And of course I am on Loyal Fans and Only Fans so you can get to know me there.
Will I see new boys in the future? Possibly, but you will have to watch this space...
Elizabeth Swan