Taking a sub's anal virginity - and how to do it.
By Elizabeth Swan on
What I really enjoy in a session is having a sub trust me enough to take their anal virginity. The most common thing they say is they are surprised it doesn't hurt. It won't hurt if it is done properly. If you have always wanted to try it, then read this blog. In fact, all men who want to do anal play with their girlfriends (or I should say to their girlfriends) would be advised to pay attention to this. Because I guarantee. Once you have hurt her, she will not want to try again. And it is of course the same with subs. So here goes.
Douche. It makes everything better. Cleaner obviously but also your anal passage will be smoother when items enter it. (I didn’t say this was a sexy blog!)
Start small. As in an index finger and lots of lube. And if you are playing at home with your partner, put a glove on. That might seem obvious but when people are pissed and horny and putting fingers everywhere, they are not thinking clearly. Fingernails. Bacteria. (Again. Not a sexy blog).
Once one finger is easily sliding in and out, add your middle finger. More lube.
Then a small buttplug with a condom on it. Not a crap one that falls out as soon as you move your hand away. Some cheap plastic ones, the really hard almost pointy ones are as useless as our current government. (Oops. Blog supposed to be about arses and not the arses in government).
Now let the buttplug do its thing whilst you do something else. Not put the telly on or make a cup of tea. Tie and tease or nipple play. Something that will distract and make the buttplug wearer more horny.
Then after a few minutes I would step up to the arse with a strap on harness with a five or six inch dildo. I would also put on a different glove. Then take the buttplug out and put my finger in again. Perhaps I don’t need to do that again but it is a final check to ensure he can take my cock. Then take my finger out, whip the glove off and put lube on the dildo. Then place the tip of the cock against his anus and insert just a tip. Maybe an inch. Then I tell him to back onto it. If he is nervous (and if it is his first time he will be) I tell him to breathe in through his nose and out through his mouth. With the breath out I push it in more.
Then I slowly start to fuck.
Listen to them. If it is “oh God yes” then they are probably enjoying it. If it is “oh god no” then take it out. Like now, before you hurt them.
But if you have moved slowly through my steps they should be having the time of their life.
And you can just enjoy fucking them now.
Elizabeth Swan