"Tips on obedience training"
By Elizabeth Swan onOccasionally I get asked kink related questions and I have decided to start answering them on my blog. So if you have a question email me (and beware, I can sniff out a time waster before I have even opened the email) I may not have time to email back but I may use your question here. So this was from a woman who follows me on Twitter. “I wanted to know if I could get some tips from you on obedience training. My boyfriend is very into me being dominant and he always asks me if there are any tasks for him to do. I haven’t really understood or come up with any ideas for him” I would say the first thing you should do is to ask him what he fantasises about and what would be a turn off. For example I have a few slaves that I give lines to and others that prefer a more overtly sexual punishment. For example being made to wear a chastity cage for a few days while I hold the key. Or being given my underwear to put on while we are having dinner at a fabulous restaurant. Then there are the slaves I give James Bond style challenges to. For example go to a certain location and take a picture of a piece of paper that says “Task for Elizabeth Swan” and send it to me within a certain time frame. As with my face to face sessions I operate by a punishment/reward system with my email domination slaves. So if the task is completed successfully they may receive a signed photograph of me or some of my underwear. But if they are unsuccessful they will receive something much more challenging. So many strikes of the cane for example if I am going to see them face to face. Another punishment was to tell a slave to fill up a specimen pot with his sperm. Then he had to post it to me. He wanted to lose weight but nothing seemed to be working. I gave him a month to get to his desired weight or I would make him drink. Suffice it to say he lost the weight. So to recap… punishment linked with reward. I hope that helps and gives you some ideas. Ps, if any slaves out there would like to undertake my distance training email me. Not for the fainthearted!